Become an A+ Daughter in Law
Learning how to be a great daughter in law can be easier than you think. If you want to build a good
relationship with your mother in law, read on... and you may be saying "I love you" sooner than you think!
These tips could give you a great relationship with your mother in law.
Be clear and honest with your mother in law about your needs and desires.
Gracefully and humbly admit it if you've made a mistake.
Respect your mother in law's opinions, wisdom, age, and experience.
Let your husband, discuss big issues with her. As the daughter in law, stand back
Call your mother in law just to say Assalamu Alaykum or How are you Mum.
Be considerate of health concerns of your mother in law, such as depression, ill health, and fears of
aging. A great daughter in law cares about other people's health. others' desires.
Ask your mother in law to join your world! Invite her to take a walk, or to an Islamic Lectures
Show respect and compassion to your mother in-law even when you don't feel like it.
Pay attention to your mother in law's needs and wishes. A great daughter in law considers ,
Accept that personality conflicts happen, and learn to live with differences of opinion.
DONT’S
Don’t tell mother in law jokes unless they're positive.
Don’t offer excuses or rationalizations to your mother in-law.
Don’t get drawn into arguments, debates or screaming matches.
Don’t let little things bother you.
Don’t expect your mother in law and husband to read your mind.
Don’t be afraid to apologize. A great daughter in law says "I'm sorry, I was wrong,"
Don’t expect an apology from your mother in-law in return. Building a good relationship with your
mother in law requires no expectations.
Don’t let your mother in law's assessment of you change your self-perspective as a daughter in law or
woman. You can't control what others think; you can only be who you are and live up to your own
standards.
Don’t be rude, critical, or overly sensitive to your mother in law.
Don’t criticize your in laws in front of your children. Building a good relationship with your mother in-law
means that you don't cut others down.
Being a great daughter in law means being yourself. Building a good relationship with your mother in law
can supersede even your own mother-daughter bond - and it can even outlast your marriage. May
Allahgive us the ability to live in peace and harmony with our in-laws.
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